WHERE you can meet a Great guy between 30 and above

It breaks my heart whenever I hear women say that there aren't any good men left, because it's just not true., 
So today I would like to share some tips and guides where the women can find their soulmate ...
Im wondering...
Maybe most of you asking me why 30 n above?
ok,, let me tell you most of my readers are come from a single mom,a single dad..divorceeee, and type of "alone forever" although I'm still young (at my age only..) but I also got an experience because my mom also a single mom after my dad died in 2008.. I know its so hard but life must be continue.. so, STOP BLAMING YOURSELF.. Its not your false dear.. Its normal and can be happened to all the peoples around the world.. (including me..) LOVE NEVER KNOWS THE TIME AND AGE.. LOOK AROUND YOU! precious your life as long you breath =)

1) Somebody Else's Company Picnic:
Pair up with another single pal and survey his or her company's assets. These events are social, and as an added bonus, you know everybody there is employed. Your insider buddy can act as your "tour guide" to help you avoid the guy who sticks paperclips up his nose.. HEHE 

2) Go Clubbing:
I know not all can go clubbing..but if want to meet an endless supply of fit, financially comfortable, educated men? Take up golfing. Trust me, men go crazy for a woman who can swing a crooked stick. And once you start, you might just find you're as addicted to golfing as the guys are.lolz

If you don't already golf, there are lots of reasonably priced lessons at your local public course. (And of course, plenty of overpriced ones at the private clubs.)

The best news about dating a man who likes to golf: he has his own friends and his own interests (okay, interest)-which means he won't be spending all his time hanging around your house in his bathrobe, hoping you'll entertain him.Finally, don't worry about whether or not you're any good-nobody is. 

3) Join a Motorcycle Gang
Over-thirty men are drawn to Harley-Davidsons and KAWASAKI superbikes gang. Whether you join a local motorcycle "gang"  (check your dealership for a group of enthusiasts in your area-some even host single-rider groups) or go it alone, motorcycle riding is another man-friendly pastime and a great way to get you out on the town. Just make sure you wear a helmet. ;) 

4) Attend a "SMART GUY HUT". 
If you're looking to meet someone as interested in self-growth as you are, attending lectures, conferences, and seminars by spiritual and self-development leaders can be a great place to start.Weekend conferences are best if you're hoping to meet other people, because they offer more chances to socialize than day-long seminars provide. If the conference feels too pricey, contact the organization or speaker and see if there's a way you can work at the event in exchange for free admission...

Yes, the crowd will be 70 percent women, but the men will be good ones. =,='

5) Romance and Power Tools
Most cities have some type of philanthropic singles organizations, and whether a group attracts young singles or mature singles depends on the city and the group.The best part of meeting people through volunteer or charity work? You help make the world a better place and meet a lot of like-minded eligibles. (Besides, helping others gives you good dating karma. hehe) If there are no volunteer groups in your area catering specifically to singles, check out Habitat for Humanity. It's a great way to meet people of all ages, and you get to spend the day in the sunshine using power tools. What could be better?

6) Charity Benefits
Charity dinners do attract a moneyed crowd, but the best way to meet people will actually get you in for free. The secret to attending all the biggest charity benefits in your city? Volunteer! Volunteers generally eat for free, and you can go out on the town for as many nights as your closet will allow. Charities are always looking for warm bodies to help with auction items, ticket-taking, setup, and other odd jobs on the day of the event. The best job? Checking people in at the door-you'll get to meet every person who attends and better yet, you'll know if that sharp-dressed charmer has tickets for two.

7) Parties Once-Removed
You know how you always invite the same seventeen people to all of your parties? < boring > .Bring some new blood to the old gang. With Parties Once-Removed, everybody you invite brings someone that nobody else in the group knows.Voila! You'll have a party full of brand-new people who already get along great with your closest friends.

IS it Love or just Infatuation ?

DID you still remember about my post about BETWEEN LOVE OR OBSESSION ??  So, i decided to post and share with my readers <sob,,sobs,,lolZ =') >   Between LOVE & INFATUATION...

1. Do I treat the other person as a person or a thing? 

If you go out with him/her because he/she is good looking (a "prize" to be with) or a way out (a ticket to the movies), that isn't love.

2. Would you chose to spend the evening alone with him/her if there were no kissing, no touching, and no sex? 

If not, it isn't love.

3. Are the two of you at ease and as happy alone as you are with friends? 

If you need other friends around to have a good time, it isn't love.

4. Do you get along? 

If you fight and make up a lot, get hurt and jealous, tease and criticize one another, better be careful, it may not be love.

5. Are you still interested in dating or secretly "messing around" with others? 

If so, you aren't in love.

6. Can you be totally honest and open? 

If either or both of you are selfish, insincere, feel confined, or unable to express feelings, be cautious.

7. Are you realistic? 

You should be able to admit possible future problems. If others (besides a parent) offend you by saying they are surprised you are still together, that you two seem so different, that they have doubts about your choice, better take a good look at this relationship.

9. Is either of you much more of a taker than a giver? 

If so, no matter how well you like that situation now, it may not last.

10.  Do you think of the partner as being a part of your whole life? 

If so, and these dreams seem good, that is an indication of love.

TOO MANY "NO"?? don't worry.. just discuss with your lover .. is she/he happy and comfort with you? if YES,, just continue your love just the way you are.. if NO... ask your lover.. did she/he dare to change himself to make your relationship more meaningful not just based on "IN RELATIONSHIP" title.. 

Life is God’s novel. Let him write it.
Isaac Bashevis Singer

TYPE of Your Love Relationship

   INTRO:


LAST NIGHT, I just comeback from my home after almost two months I separates with my mummy. (sorry for me it was SO LONG OK! =P) because I got a lot works and things need to do in my institute..When you comeback to your hometown ofcoz you want meet all your old-long-lost-dearly-friends.. then what that I can see,, most of them are already got a title "IN RELATIONSHIP" already.Plus, most of them too "coupling" with theirs' best friend! and... one of my "bitch" (I call this to all my GF that really close with me =D ) in relationship with her own BFF's ex-fiance! OMG!.. IM TOTALLY LOST MY WORDS!!? then when I go back to my "room sweet room" (err,,,girl's hostel =,=') I try to search to the internet so that i can keep my mind stop thinking about it... then i found this ! WAALLAA!! =) 


"Two California sociologists, Thomas Lasswell and Terry Hatkoff, have developed a Love Scale":

1.     Romantic love -- This lover thinks constantly about the loved one, is jealous, unrealistic, will tolerate anything, is sexually attracted by physical appearance, needs repeated reassurance he/she is loved in return. Typically lasts a few months or a few years (some anthropologists say it lasts 4 years, i.e. until the baby is through nursing and can walk and run. Then the love bond releases the more powerful males to find another female to impregnate with his genes.)

2.    Best friend or companionate love --this lover enjoys the companionship and intimacy of a close friendship. It is a comfortable, slowly developing, trusting, committed relationship, not intense excitement, desperation, or sexual obsessions.

3.    Unselfish love --the lover is devoted and self-sacrificing to the loved one, gives without expecting anything in return, is gentle, caring, and dutiful.

4.    Logical love--the lover carefully selects the "right person" logically, looking for someone with compatible interests, similar education and religion, a harmonious personality, common values, and long-term goals.

5.    Game-playing love --this person may be charming but is hardly a lover; he/she merely enjoys the dating game. He/she relishes the meeting, the impressing, the seducing, the challenge of a conquest but usually makes it clear there is little or no long-term commitment to the other person.

-- There are other kinds of loves and lovers, OF COURSE like the one who searches for a physical ideal , a great body or some specific bodily feature. ( this is true right?? ) or the one who is so possessive he/she wants to control the other person and gets physically sick or depressed or does foolish things when the relationship seems threatened. Anyway..the world never care what type of your love is actually..just ask and follow your heart,because our heart never lie about what WE really needs to do and WE want to do..do not even ask your brain because in our mind we just thinking about the logical,and the peoples said thats why your relationship always failed -- DON'T STREES YOURSELF BE COOL.. =)

THE Rules for Being a Human

1. You will receive a body. 

You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours the entire period.

2. You will learn lessons. 

   You are enrolled in a full-time informal school called Life.    Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.

3. There are no mistakes, only lessons.

Growth is a process of trial and error: experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiments that ultimately "work."

4. A lesson is repeated until learned. 

A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can then go on to the next lesson. 

5. Learning lessons does not end. 

There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive, there are lessons to be learned.

6. "There" is no better than "here." 

When your "there" has become a "here," you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here."

7. Others are merely mirrors of you. 

You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects something you love or hate about yourself.

8. What you make of your life is up to you. 

You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.

9. Life is exactly what you think it is. 

You create a life that matches your beliefs and expectations.

10. Your answers lie inside you. 

The answers to life's questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.

11. You will forget all this.

12. You can remember it whenever you want.

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Precious Quotes About Man

"Men are like steel. When they lose their temper, they lose their worth."

~ Chuck Norris

"A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him."

~ Mae West

"Men play the game; women know the score."

~ Roger Woddis

"Women are never disarmed by compliments; men always are."

~ Oscar Wilde

"Real men never stop trying to show a woman how much she means to him, even after he got her."

~Unknown

"I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman."

~ Anais Nin

"A dog is not considered a good dog because he is a good barker. A man is not considered a good man because he is a good talker."

~ Chuang Tzu

"If you would convince a man that he does wrong, do right. Men will believe what they see."

~ Henry David Thoreau

"Women speak because they wish to speak, whereas a man speaks only when driven to speech by something outside himself - like, for instance, he can't find any clean socks."

~Jean Kerr

"Men are what their mothers made them."

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson