Friday, 15 July 2011

When u in relationship u need to....



1. Never feel guilty about not able to cook But do worry about not leading a healthy life style.

2. Never feel guilty about earning more than him. But do worry about not having time for each other.

3. Never feel guilty about not having children But do worry about not making an informed decision.

4. Never feel guilty about not following his life principle. But do worry about biasing the children.

5. Never feel guilty about keeping your surname. But do worry about not understanding the implications of being couple.

6. Never feel guilty about walking out of your marriage or partnership. But do worry about making snap judgments about your partner.

7. Never feel guilty about saying no to sex But do worry about allowing days to turn into months and months to turn into problem.



Thursday, 14 July 2011

DAMN! 50 Things Men Wish Women Knew (whew!) take a deep breath pls!



1. Express yourself. It makes us proud, even if someone thinks you're wrong.
2. You look hot in running shoes and shorts. And that top thingy with the stripes.
3. Bare, tan shoulders are underrated.
4. If you think I'm speeding now, you should see me drive when you're not in the car.
5.  you're truly interested in us, don't play hard to get.
6. Shopping is a chore, not an activity.
7. When I screw up, go ahead and tell me—once
8. No question need ever be asked through a closed bathroom door if I'm inside. I love you less  with each syllable you utter.
9. I'm hot for you, not your sister or your friend or your coworker.
10. My guy friends. Not only are they not negotiable, they're your best sign that I'm not a whack job.
11.Don't be afraid to ditch the makeup. Natural is sexier.
12.Leave the eyebrows alone. Plucked ain't pretty.
13.You can have sex with us any time you want. Seriously
14.When the game is on, we will pay attention to you if you're nice about it. Bark, and we shut down.
15.I don't ask for directions because I'm just happy to be driving. Anywhere.
16.Masturbation is merely practice for the big game. Encourage it.
17.We crave hugs and hand-holding too. And no, it doesn't always have to lead to sex.
18.But you can have sex with us any time you want. Did we mention that?

19.There's no better sound in the world than you, having an orgasm.
20.Though the exhaust note of a Porsche Boxster is pretty damn fine, too
21.I just may lie to make you feel good. Don't be angry about this. You really weren't looking for the truth anyway.
22.When you get angry over some stupid little pointless thing, I question your intelligence
23.You're really bad at faking it.
24.if I offer my help while you're getting ready, it means you're late.
25.Never ask me to pick out your outfit. (See above.) I will invariably get it wrong and make us even more late.
26.Giving me two or three choices, however, can be fun. Assuming you will change outfits in front of me. Slowly.
27.Err on the side of hot; I love to show you off.
28.Unless we're meeting my parents.
29.When you call us at work "just to chat," we're not really listening; we're checking our e-mail.
30.Spring means baseball and skirts. Doesn't need to be a mini-skirt; it's been a long winter.

31.Chicks who drink beer are hot. Better yet: chicks who drink beer and watch the game. Better still: chicks who buy us a beer during the game.
32.We don't mind being told we look good. Just don't call it a "cute outfit."

33.We love ponytails.
34.Being good in bed means a) enthusiasm; b) a sense of humor; and sometimes c) patience.
35.The first time? We're as nervous as you are
36.A random unexpected grope is always welcome, even in public. Especially in public.
37.Make us laugh and we'll want to hang around.
38.Yes, I laugh really loud around the guys. And I always will, so deal.
39.Sure, men stereotypically like to solve a woman's problems. But a woman who solves her own while we watch? Instant erection.

40.You can pick the movie, but have a reason.

41.Do not expect to have a conversation via text message unless you use the words "naked" and "waiting."
42.Sometimes we wonder why any woman would want to be with us, much less someone as amazing as you. So, thanks.
43.Anytime you cook for us, we're happy.
44.If you can hit a golf ball 150 yards, we just might fall in love.
45.No, I don't remember what he said next. Or she. Or anybody, for that matter. I'm a guy, not a tape recorder.
46.We love you even more because you know we need to go out with the guys once in a while.
47.And we love it when you hang with us guys, too
48.We have a keen sense of imminent danger. It sounds like, "Do you think she's pretty?"
49.Don't rely on us for keeping you up on the news.
50.Never say, "I know you better than you know yourself." Nobody does.











What happened if u ask kids to talk about LOVE?



im totally speechless =)








WHAT IS THE PROPER AGE TO GET MARRIED?

"Once I'm done with kindergarten, I'm going to find me a wife." (Tom, 5)



WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE?

"On the first date, they just tell each other lies, and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date." (Mike, 9)



WHEN IS IT OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE?

"You should never kiss a girl unless you have enough bucks to buy her a big ring and her own VCR, cause she'll want to have videos of the wedding." (Jim, 10)



CONCERNING WHY LOVE HAPPENS BETWEEN TWO PARTICULAR PEOPLE:

"No one is sure why it happens, but I heard it has something to do with how you smell. That's why perfume and deodorant are so popular." (Jan, 9)



ON WHAT FALLING IN LOVE IS LIKE:

"Like an avalanche where you have to run for your life.."
(Roger, 9)

"If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don't want to do it. It takes too long." (Leo, 7)



ON THE ROLE OF GOOD LOOKS IN LOVE:
"If you want to be loved by somebody who isn't already in your family, it doesn't hurt to be beautiful." (Jeanne, 8)

"It isn't always just how you look. Look at me, I'm handsome like anything and I haven't got anybody to marry me yet." (Gary, 7)

"Beauty is skin deep. But how rich you are can last a long time." (Christine, 9)



CONCERNING WHY LOVERS OFTEN HOLD HANDS:


"They want to make sure their rings don't fall off because they paid good money for them." (Dave, 8)



CONFIDENTIAL OPINIONS ABOUT LOVE:


"I'm in favor of love as long as it doesn't happen when 'The Simpsons' is on television." (Anita, 6)

"Love will find you, even if you are trying to hide from it. I have been trying to hide from it since I was five, but the girls keep finding me." (Bobby, 8)

"I'm not rushing into being in love. I'm finding fourth grade hard enough." (Regina, 10)



THE PERSONAL QUALITIES NECESSARY TO BE A GOOD LOVER
:

"One of you should know how to write a check. Because even if you have tons of love, there is still going to be a lot of bills." (Ava, 8)



SOME SUREFIRE WAYS TO MAKE A PERSON FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU:
"Don't do things like have smelly, green sneakers. You might get attention, but attention ain't the same thing as love." (Alonzo, 9)

"One way is to take the girl out to eat. Make sure it's something she likes to eat. French fries usually work for me." (Bart, 9)



WHAT MOST PEOPLE ARE THINKING WHEN THEY SAY "I LOVE YOU":

"The person is thinking, Yeah, I really do love him. But I hope he showers at least once a day." (michelle,9)



HOW TO MAKE LOVE ENDURE:


"Spend most of your time loving instead of going to work." (Tom, 7)

"Be a good kisser. It might make your wife forget that you never take out the trash." (Randy,8)

SOMETHING that can make me (blushing) XD




Here are a few reasons why guys like girls:



1. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo..


2. The way their heads always find the right spot on your shoulder


3. How cute they look when they sleep


4. The ease in which they fit into your arms


5. The way they kiss you and all of a sudden everything is right in the world


6. How cute they are when they eat


7. The way they take hours to get dressed but in the end it makes it all worth while(lie)


8. Because they are always warm even when its minus 30 outside


9. The way they look good no matter what they wear


10. The way they fish for compliments even though you both know that you think she's    .     the most beautiful thing on this earth


11. How cute they are when they argue


12. The way her hand always finds yours(i love it!)


13. The way they smile


14. The way you feel when you see their name on the call ID after you just had a big             fight






15. The way she says "lets not fight anymore" even though you know that an hour later....


16. The way they kiss when you do something nice for them


17. The way they kiss you when you say "I love you"


18. Actually ... Just the way they kiss you...


19. The way they fall into your arms when they cryv(awww)


20. Then the way they apologize for crying over something that silly


21. The way they hit you and expect it to hurt


22. Then the way they apologize when it does hurt. (even though we don't admit it)!


23. The way they say "I miss you"


24. The way you miss them


25. The way their tears make you want to change the world so that it doesn't hurt her anymore.....





THE romantica places in the world..





These are some of the romantic countries in the world.
H.O.L.L.A.N.D. - Hope Our Love Lasts And Never Dies.
I.T.A.L.Y. - I Trust And Love You.
L.I.B.Y.A. - Love Is Beautiful; You Also.
F.R.A.N.C.E. - Friendships Remain And Never Can End.
C.H.I.N.A. - Come Here.. I Need Affection.
B.U.R.M.A. - Between Us, Remember Me Always.
N.E.P.A.L. - Never Ever Part As Lovers.
I.N.D.I.A. - I Nearly Died In Adoration.
K.E.N.Y.A. - Keep Everything Nice, Yet Arousing.
C.A.N.A.D.A. - Cute And Naughty Action that Developed into Attraction.
K.O.R.E.A. - Keep Optimistic Regardless of Every Adversity.
E.G.Y.P.T. - Everything's Great, You Pretty Thing!
M.A.N.I.L.A. - May All Nights Inspire Love Always.
T.H.A.I.L.A.N.D - Totally Happy. Always In Love And Never Dull.

MALAYSIA??? ...- Man Always Laugh And Yelling Since I Angry
            EHEHHEEH LOVE U ALLZ~!!





10 WORST the ways you want broke up.. DONT u ever do it!

1st.. ON VACATION: 






Just imagine you are in sweet vacation mood suddenly he said:"it's not working out," o.0 Not only have you now wasted your time and money, but you can't forget easily..please turn your trip into a rejuvenating self-improvement retreat... you'll need it.
2nd.. IN A TEXT MESSAGE:







 Ah, the text.what do u think this is puppet love? ooo The modern-day version of the Post-It. Too wussy to do it in person? Text away, wuss.so easy!! gRRRr!




3rd... ON FACEBOOK: 







Nothing like logging on to find your loved one tagged in a compromising photo with a complete stranger...to you, at least. Why this is called the "World Wide Web" and some people can't figure out how they got busted is beyond us. Besides, it's way too trendy these days - be original, people! Facebook helps you connect and share with the people in your life  hehehe now u remember this words?


4rd.. AROUND THE FAMILY:






 Don't make it a family affair - you'll seriously regret it. Whether at a sibling's wedding.  If this happens to you, at least you've got your "people" nearby to protect you, support you, and promptly kick your brand-new-ex to the curb.lolx




5th.. AT A WEDDING: 






The wedding. The defining moment for any couple. The pinnacle (top) of celebrating relationships and love. The day they'll remember as the best day of their lives. Forever. Guess the pressure got to you, huh?..




6th.. AT YOUR "SPECIAL PLACE": 






That restaurant where we had our first date...the bench in the park where we'd sit every Sunday..n bla bla bla. Why on earth would anyone think this is a good idea? Let the special place stay special. Just like there are other fish in the sea, there are other places in the whole world. If they can't find another place, you should definitely find another fish.
  


7th..IN BED: 






Come again? Talk about ruining the mood. At least wait until you're clothed.bhahaha! This one is so embarrassing that we're having visions of the recurring dream where you're on stage in front of everyone you know in nothing but your underwear.




8th..ON VALENTINE'S DAY: 






Maybe some of Malaysian did'nt celebrate this moments..BUT! There are 365 days in the year, and ONE dedicated to celebrating love. It's not like you can't claim you didn't "know" it was Valentine's Day - the stores, the ads, the cards have been in your face for weeks (or a mnth b4 it). Pick another day. It's that so simple. Don't ruin this day forever for someone, unless you're really in need of some bad karma.




9th..BY DOING NOTHING:






THIS is da one dat I da MOST I HATE...Coming home to find your love gone, with no notes, no calls, no anything may just be the worst way to handle a breakup. It is definitely the WIMPIEST. Just remember that. You do this, you are weak.!


10th.... BY CHEATING: 






Sadly, this is the most common response we received -make love before and suddenly to the unspeakable announcement that your boyfriend or girlfriend is engaged to someone else (WHAT?!?). To these we simply say, come ON. Just break it off before you cheat. You won't hurt our feelings, we promise. If THIS is the way they think is appropriate to end a relationship, imagine how they would handle life's other challenges. Not well, we're guessing. Time for you to bounce back and move forward to someone who deserves you and your love.(think wisely,, dont lazy to use your brain)..







Where you can find your soulmate =)



Men spend almost a year of their lives ogling women.
The average man will spend almost 43 minutes a day
staring at 10 different women.
That adds up to 259 hours almost 11 days each year, making a total
11 months and 11 days between the ages of 18 and 50.

But researchers found that the males of the species are not the only
ones admiring the opposite sex as women sneak a peek at six
men for just over 20 minutes a day, on average.
That adds up to almost 6 months spent admiring men
from afar between the ages of 18 and 50.

The study shows that;
Top five areas men look at women:
Supermarket;
Pub/bar;
Nightclub;
Work;
Shops.

Top five areas women look at men:
Pub/bar;
Shops;
On public transport;
Supermarket;
Work.

Monday, 11 July 2011

gracias..merci beaucoup...nandri..thank you.. =)


love to see people all around the world read my blog... Tq SOOO muchhh i really2 apreciate it.. =)


Sunday, 10 July 2011

What the things that can make me bemused..

1st.. 
      The night scene in Paris 



i really want be there not with group trips.. but with my ownself maybe with my hubby too =) ..
i love the buildings in this place because i love to see old structure but with modern amenities ..


2nd 
     The spring time in Japan


I love to be there because.. I love green scenery.. fresh air.. I love flower.. and the most important 
I dreamin to touch sakura's flower! (psst.. im not jpop n japan movie lovers ok!) 

                                       
3rd..
       To see culture in India



Okay...i admit in my life.. I dont know why i love Indian's culture.. like food,dress,songs,movies..
especially their weddings ceremony.. I love to be there and feel their culture too....



4th..
       Spent a day at Wandin Yallock,Yarra Ranges,Victoria,Australia




i love smell and taste of lavender coffee,bread jam,perfium,decorations,the flower,lavender soap,lavender oil, lavender shampoo.. LOL Im LAVENDER LOVERS!!!!